At the end of the day we are all on human, and we all tend to make mistakes now and then. Most mistakes we can live with, and then there are some mistakes that can make our life miserable. Cheating on a boyfriend that you love is certainly one way to walk down the road of misery…
Look, cheating hurts the ones you love, period. There have actually been studies that showed the pain level one can go through when he or she finds out their partner is cheating and it's on the same scale as breaking bones or other extreme physical injury. It hurts, and your boyfriend will be delicate on this topic for quite some time. You have to be careful in how you approach your plan for forgiveness.
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The best thing to do after a relationship is thrown into the fire by an infidelity that's just been brought to light is to be calm and non-confrontational, especially if you're the person that cheated. If there is confrontation, it's best to separate and give each other time to cool down and think about things without the battling of words. Fighting, and certainly pointing blame, will not help the situation.
During the time you're apart you need to think about why you cheated on your boyfriend and if this is something that will likely happen again. Look, mistakes happen, but 2 mistakes don't happen very often without someone trying to make them happen. If this is your second or third mistake then you seriously need to figure out the problem before you put your boyfriend through another round of pain.
Relationships can certainly get through a moment of infidelity. If this is a recurring problem, it will be harder, but if true love is on the table, then the relationship can make it out of this.
If you're nervous on how to go about winning your boyfriend's forgiveness then you may want to get a little help from an online relationship expert that's experienced in bring couples back together after cheating.