When you feel that your man does not love you anymore you might be asking Will he ever love me again?, or do I need to move on? If you are really in love with him, moving on will not seem like the best option and maybe no option at all.
Much can go wrong in a relationship, and remember that sometimes all of us can do a poor job of showing that we love someone, especially guys. Girls too, though, can be guilty of this - are you?
There are no guarantees that you can make him love you again, but he did fall in love with you once so there is certainly hope, and I want you to focus on that for now until proven otherwise.
So, to answer the question "will he ever love me again" here are three steps for you to follow and find out what the future holds for your relationship with him.
First, determine what went wrong with the relationship, if you can.
Did you do something to him to really push him away, did you cheat on him? This is really a whole different situation entirely than, say, the two of you just kind of drifted apart over time.
Figure out why he fell in love with you in the first place and see how things may be different, you might be different or he maybe changed since then.
Did he fall in love with a happy, smiling, fun girl to be around and now the problems of life have you down in the dumps all the time? This can certainly be the case when two people fall in love in school when your only responsibilities are grades, then real life kicks in with a vengeance once you both graduate.
Second, think about how you spend your time together now, versus before when he fell in love with you.
Again, we can find the effects of dating syndrome. When dating, all the two of you do is go out, eat out, have fun, spend money, get physical.
Then after you are committed to each other or even married, you just cannot afford to do all those fun things all time. And the physical part, well it can stay good but it is never quite like when love was new.
So the challenge is to find things you enjoy doing together that are feasible, you can afford and would help you both reignite the joy and excitement of being together.
Third, take action now to make him love you again, before it is too late.
Once you have a couple of things on a list that you can do together, carve out the time to do them.
Explain to your man that you love him and are making time to be with him and would like him to do the same. This might just be music to his ears, you will never know unless you ask.
Make sure you are both into the activities you choose, not one person giving in to the other. Quiet activities where you two can talk and "get to know each other again" are preferred, so loud bars are not the best idea.
Will he ever love me again? That is something only you can find out for sure, but we can help you figure out HOW to make him love you again.
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