When a relationship falls apart that you thought would last forever, all you will be able to think of is how to put it back together. To do that you will need to know how to win back his love and bring him back to stay. Things might have got out of hand and there were harsh words and accusations thrown back and forth. That does not mean the end of love. If you can forgive and forget, so can your ex boyfriend.
One of the biggest problems to winning back his love, will be the way you think. Since you are a woman, you will be thinking like a woman. But to get him back, you need to think as he does, like a man. You have to resist the urge to get him to sit down and talk. When men are hurt or angry, they do not want to talk. They want to crawl off somewhere and sulk.
Your ex boyfriend thinks that by doing that, you will come crying and begging him to come back. But, if you had broken up with him, he would not come crying and begging to you. He knows you love him and want him back. That gives him the ability to make you grovel and lose your pride and dignity. That is what he thinks, but you cannot do that if you want to win him back.
Instead you need to treat him as he is treating you. Ignore him and go on with your life. Act as if you are not bothered by the breakup. Spend time with your family and go out with your friends for a good time. This will catch you ex boyfriend as much by surprise as the breakup surprised you. He will begin to think he misjudged how much you loved him.
Your ex will wonder why you are not trying to get him back. He will not realize that you are doing what he would do in the same situation. You are acting and thinking like a man. He will be impressed by your strength and maturity and feel that he was a fool to let you go. Your ex boyfriend will begin to feel the same attraction he felt when he first met you.
By thinking like a man, you have gained his respect. He feels a kinship to you and instead of pulling away from you, he wants to be with you again. From that minute on your ex will not understand why, but he will feel a closeness to you. It will be the same way he feels around his best friends and buddies. Because of the actions you took to win back your ex boyfriend's love, you will not only be his girlfriend, but one of the guys.